Im Bi,I really need to talk to someone HELP?

Im bi an have been in a relationship with my gf for 10 months...I really need to talk to someone who's been in a relationship an can help me with something .Perferly a lesbain girl or biual girl I need there point of view its appreciated if u can message me on yahoo IM or any other sn but please let me know if we can talk ........thanx for your guys answer an please no dumb answer